Ladies you are on a date and it isn’t going as well as you pictured it. And this isn’t the first date that is like this. All your dates are bad. So what is going on? Here are some mistakes that women make on a date.

Talking too much. Girls you have to let him talk a little, Find out if you have anything in common. You will never know that if you don’t shut up for a few minutes.

Being too high maintenance. Guys like girls that are easy going, that can go with the flow.

Being insecure. Trust me when I say men like confident women. If you keep saying that your not good enough or that your fat or ugly. He is going to believe it. You have to show me that you can work it.

Coming on too strong. If you start talking about marriage and babies on the first date, he is going to go running. Take it slow, get to know each other. You don’t even have to have sex right away. Relationships last longer when you take time and letting it develop.

Remember ladies when on a date, I know it can be nerve racking, but be yourself go with the flow. If it doesn’t work out there are plenty more men out there.

Men do you have a clingy girlfriend that you don’t know how to deal with? Such as you calls you multiple times a day, she invites herself to hang out with you and your friends just to see you. Do you feel trapped? She is around you 24/7. You just want to hang out with your friends or spend some time alone. Here is a good way of talking with her.

It is important that you take the space that you need or even if you feel you have to break up with her. No one likes to make a girl cry, but it isn’t healthy to be in a relationship that is hurting you. It is time to stand up to her and tell her how you feel. If you can’t stand up for yourself in this relationship, you’re not going to be able to in the next one either. If you want time with your friends without your girlfriend, then take it. She can deal with her feelings about it. As a matter of fact, it will be an opportunity for both of you to grow. As you start to take space and assert yourself, it will stir up feelings in both of you. Be willing to talk about it, to reassure her that you still love her, it is just that you both need time to do your own thing. She might have a hard time understanding at first, but if she really loves you, she will understand.

It is always exciting to meet someone online. You have been talking to them for weeks or even months and the time has come when you both think it is a good time to meet each other.  Going out on a date with someone you have never met before can be stressful and exciting, but you should always remember to be safe about it. Here is how.

Tell someone where you’re going and when you’ll be back. You don’t have to spill all the juicy details, but at least let someone know what your plans are. Also tell them who you are going out with. Give full name of the person.

Drive yourself or agree to meet your date somewhere. While having your date pick you up may seem nice, it can also leave you stranded if you the date isn’t going well and you want to split.

Go somewhere public. As romantic as a candlelight dinner at your date’s apartment may sound, it’s not a good idea if you don’t know someone very well. Meet somewhere very public during your first few dates.
Listen to your gut. If something, or someone, doesn’t feel right, listen to that feeling. It’s there for a reason.
 
Watch your drink. Keeping an eye on your drink at all times means someone else can’t change your plans for the evening without you knowing about it.
 
Carry cash. Everything seemed great at first, but it went downhill faster than you could believe. Now you’re stuck at a club and just want to run. Having cash available in your wallet makes catching a cab or bus much, much easier.

Agree to check in with a friend at a certain time. If you don’t want to worry about calling someone at a preset time, have them call you. Decide beforehand language you can use to say if it’s going well or not. Yes, the food here is fantastic,” or “Oh, I’m so sorry to hear you’re sick!” won’t sound strange to your date, but your friend can pick up on what’s going on.

Is the bad economy ruining your sex life? You might not be the only one, the swinger sex scene is feeling a chill. The terrible economy has thinned out local swinging parties. If you want to save money, you can stay home and get laid for free.

Swingers clubs in New York is feeling it, swinging venues are suffering from the economic malaise. The recession has left both stationary swinging clubs and roaming adult parties with lackluster event attendance and shorter membership lists. DDeviousDelights is one of many venues that blame the economy for its 30 to 40% event attendance drop this year. The high-end roaming party One Leg Up said it has had about 20 percent fewer event attendees a year since 2007.

Lets just hope the economy gets back up soon. We don’t want to see the best Swingers Clubs going under.

Girls are you sitting there wondering if Bobby likes you, well all you have to do is watch his body language. If he is doing any of these things with his body, hate to say it but he might not be into you.

1. He leans his body away from you, whether he’s sitting or standing.
2. He backs away when you attempt to move closer to him.
3. he looks like he has a better place to be, looks like he is uneasy and tense
4. He keeps breaking eye contact with you to look at someone or something else.
5. He doesn’t look at you straight on — instead, it’s from the side.
6. If he smiles at all, it’s tight-lipped.

I know it sucks when the guy you like doesn’t like you back, just remember there are plenty of guys that you will meet that will think you are great! A good place to meet a guy is Online Dating.

Hump Day is the best day to go out and party! Club Wet is having a Screwing Around Party this Wednesday night Nov 17. It is time to give the horny Swingers just what they are asking for. Their deepest desires to come true. There will be Screwing Around games on the dance floor, so get ready for a great time.

There is a dress code, so ladies wear your sexiest lingerie and men be well groomed. Please no tank, hats or flip flops. (this is not a beach)

Club Wet is located Devore, CA . Doors open at 8pm. Can’t wait to see you there!

Too all the Swingers looking for something to do on Saturday Nov 20, get on your Camo Gear and head over to Taboo in Orlando. Taboo Swingers is hosting a party to honor Veteran’s Day.

All female personnel are to wear combat sexy attire. All male personnel will be required to stand at attention and salute!!! Boot Camp Starts 22300 hours. So don’t be late! Space is limited- Reserve Now!

Hope your hungry, the complimentary buffet blows away every Swinger Club in Orlando, with entrees including items such as shrimp, oysters, chocolate covered fruits, fondues, sushi, etc.

There’s no other Swingers Party like it, you don’t want to miss out.